Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Inner beauty

It is known that the first impression is very difficult to change. Are you going to appeal to someone depends solely on you. many people know how to make contact with the interlocutor. Phrases can help in establishing a contact, but not enough when a nodding acquaintance want to convert into a deeper relationship. Phrases are used as an aid, not as an optional method for converting contacts into a deeper relationship.

So, learn how to behave when you meet new people.  1st Make eye contact interlocutor always look directly into your eyes and read the speech body. Kindly osmehujte, because you will be so people perceived as friendly and warm person.  2nd Let us all take part in the conversation do not dominate during the conversation. Pay attention to who is not participating in the conversation and turn it on. Each of us likes to be accepted.  third Listen while others are saying one of the reasons why friendships go beyond the superficial contact is the inability to hear the interlocutor. If the contact you want to deepen note that get a real dialogue. People who know how to listen to really have a favorite. Besides listening, and know how to signal that they are fully saživeli with the story. And those people who are constantly talking, and from which one can not get to tell anyone not likable.  4th Do not be a know-it- People who know everything and nowhere disagrees act repulsive and frightening. Nobody wants to wish to associate with someone who can always make a smart and knows all the best. If you overemphasize their skills and abilities in terms of science, culture, before you start to prevent intimate relationship with the interlocutor, but people interested in what you are going ga for themselves. He will retire thinking that you are not able to cope or will provide the resistance that borders on hostility.  5th Say something pleasant compliments Instruct participant. So you win the sympathy that will last forever.  6th Be informed Those persons who are well informed about the daily events may be included in any conversation. Conversation can start on some of the most recent events, express opinions, and then ask the interviewee what he thinks about it. If it happens that begins interlocutor topic about which you have no idea, be inquisitive and post a question. This is the reason that the conversation continues.  7th Smejte in to your own account at a joke or a story about where you have fallen dagađaju funny, it will attract people and provoke their interest in you. Those who are making jokes on his own account radiate positive energy and warmth. 

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